Shall I begin where my love story started or do I jump right into the drama? It doesn't matter I'll say it all!
My life was a regular type of mess, some ups and downs with some wtf's and some beautiful memories. 

Let's begin with the now.
I'm a divorce coach but i'm still in the midst of my messy divorce. I'm positive and strong but the strength comes from my kids. They are the reason I get up every day. I'm currently trying to find ways to have a stable income before I become completely solo yet trying to do something I love. I had a great career but after having kids I could no longer get my self to work most of the day and only see them for an hour before their bed time. Maybe when they grow up a little i'll go back to the 9 - 5 if I haven't yet figured out a passive income method. 
 
So what got me here, you ask?

I had a love story that was mind blowing and have heard the sentence "I want a story like yours" several times it almost stab my heart me every time I remember that now. I had an exhausting marriage where we both constantly had to work hard to make 'us' work. I have kids and an unstable career, my fault though, then went ahead and got my self some kids too!  But above all I had love... oh wait did I say that? correction, I had what I thought was love. With the trauma bonding and the denial and pain I was feeling, I didn't know that love wasn't enough or that this wasn't love to begin with.











I am currently going through a divorce with a 3 year old and a 6 month old and I'm here to document every detail starting with 10 years ago when we fell in love.

The aim here is to help other mothers know that you are not alone and there are so many things you could do to help you get past this, but what's more important than getting past it is getting back the old you who is not afraid to fall in love again, live her life to it's fullest and just be happy. But know that you and only you can do it. I'll lay out all the things I've done and still doing to help me get through every single day and you and I can work together to find what would work for you. As a divorce coach, I can help guide you and show you all the paths you can take.

So talk to me! ask me directly what the options are. Tell me your story let me give you relevant ideas. Let me help you stand up before it's even over. Don't wait till the divorce is done for you to get your life back. Get up now! That's what 'm doing. Our divorce is still at the beginning of it, which means I still have another 5 - 8 months till I'm divorced due to the laws in the country I reside in. Now why would I wait till that's done for me to get my life sorted. Absolutely not! My new life has started the moment I realized there's no fixing us. Don't get me wrong, I'm shattered, in pain and wonder every single day why god has paved this path for me and my kids. But that won't matter. It's happening no matter what I want. So just get up, get moving and do you!

I will write a series where each article will continue the story from the one before, they will be numbered so you could keep track. But I will also write posts that are informative, full of advice and suggestions, as well as supportive and hopefully will help both men and women to have a clearer image on things that can strengthen, maintain, or break a marriage. 
I am in constant talks with other divorcees to help give me more insights on these posts. I will also be talking to professionals to have posts backed by science so you won't wonder if I'm making this up.

A huge part of my posts will be dedicated to kids of a broken home. The best way to handle kids, inform them, nurture them and successfully co-parent them. How to put with up your ex for the sake of the kids. Kids are much more intuitive than you could ever imagine and the smallest act of negativity can impact their upbringing. Of course a broken home will effect them but there are ways to make sure it doesn't effect their beautiful souls as adults. 
 
My aim is to help you. But believe me when I say, I need your help too. Talk to me so I could make it through this tough time too. Comment your opinion and thoughts. Email me things you've learned in your marriage. Tell me your story and let me share it with other readers too. 
 
Be apart of my journey and let me be a part of yours.
 
Remember that old flowers need to die for new life to sprout. So do marriages. 

Now what?